Thursday, April 29, 2010

Marriage Tips: Listen To Your Husband


"One of the ways you can both tell and show your husband that you want to understand him is by making a commitment to daily dialogue with him. Daily dialogue only takes 20 minutes out of your day. Isn't your husband worth 20 minutes each day?"

How to Restore Your Marriage and ignite the Romantic Fire!

Aren’t you tired of coming home every night to the same old tired monotonous arguments and cold attitudes from your spouse. Wouldn’t it be great to finally enjoy the company of someone who is really interested in you and your ideas and passions. IS this really what you got married for? When was the last time you and your spouse spent any time doing something other than come home, cook, check homework, rake the leaves, clean the bathrooms, wash dishes, check the mail, log onto the internet, go to the church meetings, wash clothes, take a shower, read the paper and go to bed? Are your eyes constantly full of tears, because of painful reminders of infidelity and unforgiven and unforgotten hurt in your marriage? Do you feel disrespected, dishonored, unloved, and unimportant to your spouse. Has there been any door slamming lately and have you had recent thoughts of leaving or separating from your spouse? Are you ready to get that emotional relief you’ve been waiting for? Do you wonder if it will ever get any better? Hasn’t the last 5 years of your marriage and the same routine been enough already. I thought so too, and that is when I realized I had become complacent and very redundant in my marital relationship. Living and passion had been comfortably taken for granted…my attitude about romance, even changed…It was time to do something about it or be destined to live a married life I had never hoped for . What my wife and I did to restore the passion, vigor and life in our marriage are the answers I have outlined in this E-book "How To Restore Your Marriage and ignite the Romantic Fire."

You're on the same team.....

Your spouse is on your team, resist the temptation to be so critical, sarcastic, and confrontational. There is enough of that coming your way from the outside. Create an atmosphere where communication can freely come forth. Speak to one another in love and be clear when you ask a question or give an answer. Remember, you are one.